I was supposed to write this post at least on January, when the new years eve just passed and when mostly people spread their resolution on every social media. Well, my year seems just start a little bit late, with those bad choices happen on those crazy month, i don’t even able to touch my laptop to write things nor writings. I make couple right choices by the time and feel to share it now, so here it goes;
Happiness. Somehow just by saying it, mixture feelings of excitement, worry, and pressure come upon us. Those feelings come because we have certain expectations to be met and when the calendar says that 2019 has officially begun, we often have this unspoken hope and anxious that some or at least one of our expectations can be crossed away from our list.
You may expect to be positive person, i know, i do. Those target that you may aim like; have an great achievement in career, find a life partner (again), break a habit that doesn’t bring any good, and being committed to something bigger than yourself. But you also might to accept negativity before you close to that.
I wish each one of you look forward to have a year that is full of happiness, joy, and fun. I know it’s been quite some time since the last time i post about yearly motivation on 2012 ‘Keep Calm I’m in Paradise’, but i have been saving my writings for my first book project on my paradise.
I keep telling my self; “2019 is a gift” and this is not just wishful thinking, and it’s also not only imaginary nor overreacting feelings, no matter good or bad my situation is, its just there.
I know that couple of days ago i received an email from someone that i almost forget about, she said; “you are my biggest happiness that comes in my worst life, i would like to thank you for that”, after almost 3 or 4 years never heard about her anymore. Its silly to know that i was thinking about someone that somehow want to say “Shes the biggest mistake that comes on my greatest life” To be honest i still can’t understand what happened between all those love story that just passing by through the pain (mostly) that comes on our life, but someone once said to me; “To understand everything is to forgive everything.” And i still have big eager to understand everything, so i listen.
Let’s moving on with life along with all of our choices not from someone choices. If your choices have been making you a happier person then continues doing it. If your choices somehow have brought tears, anxiety and worry, don’t bother fixing what can not be changed instead take that experience and use it to make a new and better choices. Without you know it, 2019 will go by very quickly and 2020 will be soon around the corner. Start making a ‘happier’ choice , when you don’t make that choice, you are postponing a happier and fuller life. That might be pending your one more steps to success. That’s matters, and that’s all about i guess.
Just remember this; “We never taste a perfect joy, our happiest successes are mix with sadness.” So, who ever you are, or where ever you are and what the fuck ever you are, try to remember that.
I hope it will inspired all of you, my heart warm readers to make the right choice.
To be Happier.