Art of Love at The First Sight

“I could not tell you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.” ~miamou


Falling in love at first sight is one of the best experiences of a life time for anyone. It feels so magical and strange. When you face that moment, not only your mind, but also your body feels strange.

One time I went to a party and just sitting around. All of a sudden someone is beside me, offering to get me a drink or just a simple as they just ask you to light her cigarette. That simple thing will definitely led you to make a first move to see her feedback, then suddenly you might feel strange comfort and begin to start a conversation. Here after you’re struck by the emotional feeling that, you have just found someone who probably you could get for a future relationship, but don’t get it wrong and no need to rush. Make it everything as natural as you can. You see a nice girl staring at you with a innocent catchy smile, you think you just found the Miss. Right for you. But that’s crazy, isn’t it? I know, its isn’t normal, and this is not happens most of the time, But sometimes it could be ended up with long lasting wild romance perhaps. So, my point of view, first site love is that much strong sometimes.

Many think that is the real love. Because, when we just saw a person on the very first time, we don’t know anything about them. Do they educate or what they do for their life, and how old are they. The most important thing is, at least do they like us? Or they just try to flirt and playing her games to attract us? We don’t know anything yet, but we just feel love about them. So it’s only love. Nothing is there, in between us only a feeling of love. So, isn’t it real love? Or I could only say; it could be a real love and why not.

But few think, it’s not real love at the very first sight, but it’s only a desire about that person. If you think deeper about this, can this gorgeous, deep-voiced, well-dressed strange pretty lady with the perfect figure, give you what you really want for your life? Because we don’t know anything about them, and they don’t know who we are neither. It might be only a feeling of desire about that person. Desire, is actually not the true love, perhaps if we get to know about theses strangers some people would like to escape from them.

Beside all of the above, it’s better to see whether, “is there any mechanism for this love at first site?” Not all of us fall in love within few seconds. On my point of view, that kind of first sight love is the only thing that i can only see on the books or romance movie. So, sometimes it might be hard to experience it in a real life. Further, it has been seen in studies that men are more likely to falling in love immediately than women. It seems like men are more stimulated by visual appeal than women. On the other hand, women experience romantic chemistry a lot better than men. It means, Men know they like a woman the very second they see her. But in the case of women, they usually fall in love with someone after the one or two conversations, and it definitely depend of how the man treat her as a good stranger guy, such as; being fun, respect her as a lady, no need to give them too much compliment, just being natural you, listen carefully when they talk something serious, avoid to judge her easily, and many more. But the most important thing is to make her feel comfortable. And, Do you know that your first kiss also affect your love? If you lucky make her more feel comfortable with your kiss so you wont lose the attraction. And it’s not just the kisses, your body language too can predict whether you will experience love at first sight.

My best advice is, if both of you feel comfortable together, just take a walk sometimes, go to a coffee shops, spent time to get to know each other, avoid to talk about her bad memory of past, don’t judge easily, don’t get to attached or even worse get a really fast sex, sometimes is a good starts to have sex at beginning of relationships, but I experience it hard to make a ‘first sight love’ to a happily ever after, because that good sex will distract a simple thing of natural relationship. That’s actually what I learn from my mistake. So what do you think? Falling in love at first sight is real love? Or is just a lust that will bring you to a short term attached that only leads you to a one night stand? You decide.

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“I could not tell you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.” ~miamou

Author: Moussa Askey

It sounds easy, but it is not. I know because i am writing my first book: "Begin at the beginning and go on till you come to the end: then stop" (Alice in the Wonderland)

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